And you are totally right about assumptions in regard to bodies- not good at all. As far as clothes, have you embraced this whole new stretchy shirt trend? It’s very convenient for boobs and shoulders, particularly since the current trend is oversized, so it’s easy to get stuff with room to spare.

(Late reply is late.)

Dude, I may not have large breasts, but I’m feelin’ ya on the whole “No clothes fit me” thing. I gotta shop in the men’s section cuz I have huge, Amazonian shoulders and none of the women’s stuff – not even the plus sized stuff – fits me. Which is a damn shame because there’s some awesome cute tops I’d love to wear but can’t.

I am, however, tired of everyone assuming I’m some butch bulldyke because of a genetic shuffle that gave me large shoulders. Assumptions about any type of body part – shoulders, breasts, butt, legs – should stay in your mind if you absolutely feel you need to make them.